Change is worth observing

Answers can reflect your state that day, how you read an item, relationship experience, and felt safety. Note the date and context, then compare what is stable and what changes instead of chasing a percentage. Different versions may use different items and reference baselines, so their numbers are not precise differences on one scale.

Put safety first

Every preference needs to be re-confirmed in its specific context. Before starting, discuss limits, stop signals, physical and emotional state, privacy, and aftercare; keep checking in and leave time to debrief. Silence, hesitation, intoxication, pressure, or past agreement never replace present, clear consent.

A practical next step

Choose one question from this page and discuss only that question. A test result or checklist can prepare language, but it never replaces specific, present, and withdrawable consent.

Open Kink Sheet

Resources and support

If you experience ongoing distress, coercion, harm, or cannot leave safely, prioritize a trusted person, local mental-health or medical services, or emergency support. These pages do not replace professional help.

Questions people often ask

How often should I retake?

There is no universal interval. Use a retake as periodic reflection, not as a cycle that feeds uncertainty.